What We Go Deep On:
Intensives are built for the work that needs room. A few of the places couples come to do it:
Affair & betrayal repair.
The discovery, the aftermath, the question of whether trust can be rebuilt and what that would actually require. We don't rush you to forgiveness and we don't pretend nothing happened. We do the slow, honest work of facing the rupture and deciding — together — what's possible on the other side.
Sexual reclamation.
Mismatched desire. The erotic connection that's gone quiet. Shame inherited from purity culture, from religion, from a world that taught you your body was a problem to manage. The orgasm gap. The version of your sex life you've each been too afraid to ask for out loud. We name it, we de-shame it, and we help you find your way back to wanting each other on purpose.
Opening up & restructuring.
Moving toward ethical non-monogamy, or renegotiating a structure that isn't working. Agreements, jealousy, the difference between what you think you should want and what you actually want. ENM-competent, judgment-free, grounded in the real logistics of doing it well.
Kink, power & exploration.
For couples wanting to bring this into their relationship intentionally — negotiation, consent, the erotic and the emotional held together. Therapeutic BDSM-informed and fully affirming.
Decolonizing the relationship.
Untangling the inherited scripts — about love, gender, monogamy, who's supposed to lead and who's supposed to sacrifice — that you never actually agreed to. Building a relationship that belongs to the two of you, not to the systems that raised you.
Major ruptures & transitions.
Money, family, identity, relocation, a breach that wasn't an affair but cut just as deep. The crossroads moments where weekly therapy can't move fast enough.
If what you're carrying isn't on this list, that doesn't mean it doesn't belong here. Reach out and
How It Works
Intensives are built for the work that needs room. A few of the places couples come to do it:
Private pay only.
I don't take insurance — which means no diagnosis on your record to get a session approved, no insurance company deciding what your relationship is allowed to need, and full privacy over the work you do here.
Superbills available.
I can provide a superbill (filed under couples therapy, 90847) if you'd like to submit it. Be aware that multi-hour intensives generally aren't reimbursable the way standard sessions sometimes are — there's no CPT code built for this kind of compressed work. Treat any reimbursement as a maybe, never a plan.
A 50% deposit holds your day.
Intensives mean blocking out a half-day or full day reserved entirely for you, so booking requires a non-refundable 50% deposit, with the balance due before we begin.
Breaks are part of the container.
You're not buying minutes in a chair — you're buying the whole held space. Breaks (and lunch, on the full day) are built into the time, not deducted from it.
Ready?
Untangling the inherited scripts — about love, gender, monogamy, who's supposed to lead and who's supposed to sacrifice — that you never actually agreed to. Building a relationship that belongs to the two of you, not to the systems that raised you.